Alex and I got hitched 7 1/2 years ago, and I loved every moment. But it’s fun to think about what we might do differently if we were planning our wedding today. Surprisingly, as the years pass, I find myself imagining a simpler and simpler wedding. Maybe it’s because I know more than ever that the core elements (family, the vows) are what really matter, or maybe because at this point in life I can’t imagine planning something elaborate! Here are a few things I’d switch up…
My J.Crew dress made me feel like a ballerina, but these days I might go for a shorter, more casual number, like this one by Samuelle. (Also, remember these cute overalls and this sweater?)
My heels pinched and I ended up barefoot by the end of the night, so I’d pick pretty shoes with a comfy stacked heel. And you could wear them on your honeymoon, too.
Walking down the aisle was such a magical moment, it still gives me chills to think about. We had considered playing Bob Dylan’s “Shelter From the Storm” as our processional song, but I worried that, at five minutes, the song was too long. Instead, we played “Ave Maria,” which was beautiful — but I always secretly wished we’d gone with our first choice. (What would you play?)
We served chocolate chip cookies for dessert, but if we were going for that cut-the-cake moment, I’d choose flourless chocolate. So good.
How sweet and simple is this bouquet of white roses?
After the reception, Alex and I went back to our hotel, ordered a burger on the bed and gossiped while I spent an hour taking out all my bobby pins:) If we had a do-over, we might stop by our friends’ after party first. It’s one of those rare times that everyone you love comes together, and it’s worth soaking that up as long as possible.
A couple things from our wedding that I’d definitely do again: A first look. An Italian dinner. This nail polish. Marrying Alex. Our honeymoon souvenir. xoxo
Are you planning a wedding right now? If you’re married, what would switch up if you got married again (to the same person, of course)? Here’s what I would have done four years ago:) It’s funny to see how your taste and wishes change!
P.S. More wedding advice, including the sweetest wedding proposal, and 10 wedding dos and don’ts.