Have a Good Weekend.

flowers by Hilary horvath

What are you up to this weekend? Our days are slightly blurring together, to be honest, but we’re going to head to the beach and have a summery picnic. Hope you have a good one, and here are a few fun links from around the web…

Our associate editor Kim Rhodes was on the Today Show! See her clip here. (All the clapping emojis!)

Love these (masked) outfits.

The old-school game we can’t stop playing.

Made me laugh out loud.

The new dating timeline. LOVED this.

Photography team Belathée just launched a print shop.

Butter and jam never looked so good.

Pen15’s second season just dropped its trailer.

What a cool, colorful loft.

Shel Silverstein’s The Tree Who Set Healthy Boundaries.


Plus, two reader comments:

Says Kash on secret family recipes: “My Ukrainian grandmother made the BEST cabbage rolls, and before she passed away I got her recipe. The secret is literally just like, a metric ton of butter and lard, poured over everything. Here I thought I was going to get an old family secret and then it was literally just ‘pour lard and butter onto the rice’ and I was like ‘Well, yeah no shit it tasted so good when she made it, it’s just like seven cups of butter poured onto carbs.'”

Says E. on secret family recipes: “I want to write a book on all of the ‘secret family recipes’ that are in fact from a box. It happened in my husband’s family with grandma’s famous chocolate frosting (Hershey’s). The awe to which the entire family had for her frosting warms my heart. You discover it’s more about the person than the actual food!”

(Photo by Hilary Horvath Flowers.)

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This 450-Square-Foot East Village Apartment Has an Inspiring Gallery Wall

For the past eight years, Alex Yeske has lived with her husband, Grant, in a 450-square-foot apartment in Manhattan’s East Village. They’re moving to L.A., but will miss their small space and its quirks. “The floors are so slanty, you could roll a marble down them,” Alex says. “But we love it here.” Here’s a look around…

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A Week of Outfits: Marianne Merza

A Week of Outfits: Marianne Merza

I met Marianne Merza two summers ago at a friend’s cookout, and her style was so outstanding, I looked forward to seeing what she’d wear at every occasion after. I loved learning more about her philosophy of ease when it comes to getting dressed. “Growing up in California, I’ve always had a very casual style, and I’ve kept that here in Brooklyn.” Here are five looks she wore in a week…

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Five Fun Things

new girl sex scene

Man Repeller just featured 13 haikus on sex in quarantine, which made me laugh out loud. Here’s one: “Like when the pool first / opens, swimsuit on, head-first / then once, twice a month.”

luster book

Raven Leilani’s Luster, one of the most widely anticipated books of the year, came out this week to great fanfare. The smart, witty novel follows Edie, a young Black woman working an admin job in publishing, who finds herself part of a suburban white couple’s open marriage. This summer, I’ve kept starting and stopping books, unable to find anything compelling, but once I read Leilani’s opening line — “The first time we have sex, we are both fully clothed, at our desks during working hours, bathed in blue computer light” — I knew I wouldn’t put this one back down.

shag cake

Have you ever seen a shag cake? This wedding cake, above, looks like a 1960’s rug in the best way. “People love them and always want to touch them,” the baker Kait Winowitch told us. “And the buttercream tastes as good as it looks.”

Jeni's coffee ice cream

At age 41, I started drinking coffee for the first time in my life, and it’s really hitting the spot. (GUYS WHY DIDN’T ANYONE SAY ANYTHING?;) Now I’m wanting all the coffee-flavored treats, including Jeni’s Coffee With Cream and Sugar Ice Cream. Yummmmmmm.

John Derian flowers

Remember John Derian’s Provincetown house tour? I love how he plays around with scale and arranges branches tall enough to touch the low ceilings. Here’s a photo from his Instagram. So inspiring!

P.S. 8 style hacks to steal from movies, and the nerdiest tip.

(Wedding cake photo by Belathée.)