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By the lovely Grace Farris.
P.S. Very minor holidays and which hot drink are you?
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Ha, I would love to be a gardener (but I am more the Classic)
I love having many different ānew yearā datesāJanuary 1st of course, but also my birthday, the start of summer, the start of the school year, and Rosh Hashanah. Each one is an opportunity to reflect and set intentions, rather than resolutions, for the year ahead. I feel like I always have another chance to succeed or do over or rethink just around the corner!
I relate to the academic and especially her cousin: the Forever Procrastinator. Do nothing in January because you wait for āthe real New Yearsā which of course is after summer when you have lots of energy; come September, you think ānah, itās only four months left of this year, letās wait until I can get a new calendar and start January 1st ā¦ā. Repeat for infinite number of times šš¬š¤·š»āāļøš
Lolol omg love this approach:)
I usually don’t “do” resolutions because I have always felt that if something is going to improve your life, you don’t need to wait for a start date. But last year I decided to stretch for 10 minutes before bed every night (really more like 4-5 nights/week) and it has been so lovely! Then I realized that what I love is the micro-resolution. This year my micro-resolution is to leave my phone at home when I walk the dog.
This year my resolution is to finish things. The resolution isn’t about starting things and having the follow-through to get them done. It’s about finishing many of the things I already started that aren’t done yet… books I bought but haven’t read, pictures I meant to hang, a scarf set aside mid-knit, pants I need to hem and jewelry I need to have mended, cooking ingredients I want to use up, a bag of donations I want to drop off, plants I want to re-pot, art supplies and craft stuff waiting to finally be used, etc. This month I started playing my guitar again (just ten minutes a day) and it’s one of my bigger and more delightful things to “finish.” I want to get good enough to play just for fun on my own!
Oohh I love this! Follow-through is hard!
Heeeyyyy…have you been in my house? This sounds like my dining room! (Sans guitar.) A three day weekend sounds like a good time to try to find the top of my dining table.
My resolution at the beginning of 2024 was to read more of my book backlog. I read a lot, but mostly library books. However, I just checked my reading log and since I made the resolution two years ago I’ve read 19 “backlog” books. Still at it now …
Def the gardener. My seeds are started, my cold crops are peeking through, my yard plans are forming. šand next month is the annual orchid event in my area.
If you are talking Cheekwood, I am SO excited for the annual orchid event! Always a highlight on my winter calendar!
@Eli, sadly, Iām not in TN but I have been to the glorious Cheekwood more than once. My nephew lives nearby-near enough to visit. Have a wonderful time next month!
Our local garden center has a orchid club affiliation which draws orchid growers and collectors from around the country. The event lasts four days, including classes.
I have amaryllis in my shopping cart as we speak!
I went to a networking event this morning as an introvert. New Year’s resolution, done!
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