Do You Pee in Front of Your Significant Other?

I have been with my husband since I was 16 and him 21 we go to the same bathroom together all the time even in public places and we pee in front of each other all the time I mean we’re comfortable with each other hell we even make love in there after we pee

I have peed in bushes and now pee with the door open in the men’s room. If was legal to walk naked and pee if desperate to pee and no where near a bathroom I won’t mind if people see me piss. We see people’s penis and pussy on porn sites so why not for real in person

I think it boils down to whether you notice the sound. When I lie in bed, I like to listen to the wind outside or the birds chirping in the trees. If my husband were to get up out of bed while I’m romantically listening to nothingness, then I truly resent having to hear him pee with the bathroom door open. It breaks the silence of my inner thoughts with s really gross sound. I can even see him through the crack in the door, how he stands with one arm bent on his hip, probably looking down to make sure his pee doesn’t fall on the floor. I just don’t llke this anymore. I think he should close and lock the door when he pees and I’m in the room, because I do not want to wake up every morning to the sound of piss, and that’s what it would amount to like clockwork. I guess it boils down to how sensitive your ears are to sounds. Other than this, it’s okay to pee once in a while with doors open, but after many years I’m just sick of it now. I don’t want to hear him gargle, spit, or cough either. It’s either pleasant sounds or go live somewhere else. I like my peace and quiet lol.

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I hate to say I find it a bit rediculous to be uncomfortable peeing in front of your S/O. I prefer to do my #2’s with the door closed simply because I feel the need to “concentrate” and he distracts me, lol. We are more comfortable with each other than anyone in the world. I don’t pee in front of my relatives, except my mom, so if anything, sharing potty time with my fiance makes me feel like he’s less of a relative. I don’t go pee in front of my uncles! Being so comfortable with my fiance makes our relationship more exciting and rewarding. He has helped me become comfortable with myself, bcs I never was before we met, so it’s ony natural that I would be super comfortable with him. We love being so close and being able to share everything. We’re lovers AND best friends, and I wouldn’t change that for the world!

I seldom pee in front of my boyfriend. I like that in secret.

Of course we do! I pee in front of my husband all the time and he does in front of me. We are human beings not robots. I agree with what a reader said earlier, “If you’ve exchanged bodily fluids then you can exchange bodily functions”. We DO NOT poop in front of each other but peeing is no big deal. I mean my husband watched me give birth to our son. He’s my spouse not the next door neighbor. If I lived a life where I had to turn the faucet on every time I peed that would get ridiculous. Maybe it also has to do with the fact that I grew up with 4 sisters in a small house and privacy didn’t exist.

Running the faucet? How wasteful! Why not hum a tune instead?

Absolutely not! I grew up in a household where my parents had separate bathrooms. I came to revere this. Fortunately, my partner and I have unspoken rituals to keep bodily functions and bathroom-related (even some grooming) situations in private.

Best way to lose any modicum of romance or attraction is to let yourself slip by revealing too much, when it comes to bodily functions!

We do not have kids, though, and I can imagine as parents we may not have the luxury to be so private with these things.

Cin Cin.

its so funny to me to think about that topic like that :) Its interesting how are people sensitive to things that are really pointless if you compare them to those others that happen in life.
I never go peeing with an intention to be seen by my man. That would be weird. But if it happens, that he’s in the bathroom and is shaving or bathing and I need to go to pee, I go. We really dont mind what we do, we dont pay attention to that.
If I pee, I automaticly close the the door, he too. Anyway we are really simple and relaxed…and are having a really good time together. we like to joke. we are childish and silly when we are feeling so :)

ps: thats kind of normal tho for western people…to be ashamed or narrow minded about things that are realy natural in its nature… :) I can understand those questions, but I think we should concentrate on things in intimate relationships that are REALLY IMPORTANT and make deep and firm concections and makes us fulfilled.

Dont bother about that, Joanna ;)

I’d like to see the answers to this question… do any of you masturbate in front of your boyfriends/husbands?

This is a great post, my girlfriends and I have discussed this question before. I do not pee in front of my husband. We have lived together for over 5 years and I will not. I agree that some separation is important and I always want him to find me desirable. That being said, he has no problem peeing in front of me and when he does I often leave the bathroom.

i always thought about this. i guess it is easier since i married a biology major! i couldn’t possibly hide that i never do #1 or #2. :D to him, they are both normal bodily functions and they don’t bother him at all. i do think about that notion of becoming more of relatives instead of lovers, so we’ll see what happens.

I pee in front of my husband, but he has to leave when I wipe. And I never poo in front of him, that’s reserved for sisters, haha.

Well I dont fuck my relatives so, yeah.

are u people crazy? my wife urinates in my mouth and vice versa…i really enjoy this

I really like your blog! Great question- I believe that going pee or poo doesn’t kill your loveeee. Truthfully I think all these people that are so embarrassed, really have the curiosity of doing it in front of one another, bc humans are like this…we like having these secrets that are NOT necessary. I do number 1 number 2 number 3 and whatever in front of my bf. We have been together for 10 years and I think that if I couldn’t do this..I wouldn’t be with him. Imagine when you have a baby… I think that’s even worse than doing poop in front of him! But well I respect that each person has their own boundaries :P I guess I’m just too open haha

Married 13 years. We give each other private time but we also have no problem peeing in front of each other. In fact, when we go camping and I pee in the woods (which I totally enjoy), my husband thinks it is very sexy. Go figure!

Joanna, where is the photo from (the woman laughing?) so cute:)

Just found this post….hilarious. Married 28 years and yes, no problem peeing with doors open….no children at home now. A step further…I was the “holder” when he pee’d – because I wanted to see what it was like…..

This is funny because, while I have no problem peeing in front of anyone (it surprises me that so many do!), the whole “relatives” thing is why changing my last name has no appeal to me. It’s like, “I’m a [last name] and you’re a [different last name], and I’m so glad that you’re my best friend/lover/parter/boyfriend, and *not* family. Does this make sense to other people?

My wife is of the “no, never” persuasion, thinks the whole idea of watching one another pee is beyond gross. One night, unknown to me, she was in the bathroom, sitting, with the light off, and I walked in. She screamed very loud. It was traumatizing, I am now extremely careful about walking into even a dark bathroom.

When I was younger and single I had a friend who was gay who told me about taking a non-sexual shower with a woman friend and surreptitiously peeing down her leg. I remember at the time I was jealous. But that was probably because I didn’t have a girlfriend and would have given anything to have a shower with one, pee or no pee.

I totally pee. But noooo pooping. That is just too much. I would like my husband to maintain some sense of me being a delicate flower. :)

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I peed in front of my ex-boyfriend and he made a comment that the romance had died–which was SO true! I am comfortable with all of that stuff, so it’s not an issue. But with my current boyfriend, I don’t want him to think of me in that “gross” way when we are intimate. I don’t even pass gas either, and I did with my last bf as well. It’s really important to keep some mystery and romance. You don’t want to be seen as his guy friend.

I though it was so weird when we bought our house because our master bath seemed to be laid out so well…except for the potty corner. It’s on the other side of the shower so there is a little bit of privacy but I wish we had a door. I would definitely be a closed-door person but I am pregnant with our second child and duty calls!

I’m really surprised too by the number of ‘no ways’. We pee in front of each other. And if I didn’t fart in front of him too, I’d either explode or take off like a balloon. It makes me so uncomfortable to try to keep any gas in!

I accept that some people find it embarrassing, BUT I would exhort you not to be so vain as to keep the faucet running. It’s wasteful and frankly a bit silly. I gave up being embarrassed about the sound of my peeing when I was eighteen. It’s all natural. My husband finds it sexy that I am so relaxed with my body – fluids and all.

That said, no no.2s with the door open, and door closed when it’s that time of the month…

I absolutely pee in front of my boyfriend. He does too. We have been together for 3 years and we feel completely comfortable around each other. I never realized so many people didn’t! I could do anything around him and I feel lucky that we have such a close knit relationship.

Funny post! We go #1, but for courtesy and privacy #2 is mostly with the door closed. I mean, it smells. I never thought about keeping the door closed for mystery. I enjoy feeling like I can be comfortable in my house with my lover and partner. I respect that others don’t want too, thats your thing, but the running water thing I can’t get behind. It’s a waste! In CA, that would be a no no : ) one thing I do NOT do is be in the bathroom when someone is brushing their teeth. THAT totally grosses me out. Its one of my little picadilos (quirks), but I just can’t do it, it makes me gag!

We’ve been together almost 10 years, married for almost 6, and I’m 12 weeks pregnant. We are best friends, lovers… and going to be parents. The spark is obviously still alive (with baby on the way)… and… we pee in front of each other. It hasn’t killed our spark one bit. (c: We are just super comfortable.

Not really an issue for me yet, since I don’t have a husband or even a boyfriend, but I can’t really imagine doing this! My family is pretty reserved… definitely doors closed all the time, and I even felt weird sneaking in to use the toilet if my sister or mom was in the shower… definitely never even considered it if the boys were in there. I’m not ashamed or embarrassed about bodily functions but I figure there has got to be *some* privacy in life, right?