My darlings, on this Motherhood Monday, I’d love to talk about baby names! Do you have favorites? When Alex and I first found out that we were expecting a child, we were so giddy (and, um, surprised:) that we couldn’t sleep. So we found ourselves in our dark living room at 2 a.m. brainstorming names. Our top boy’s names were Toby, Julian, Charlie, and Elliot (ahh, I still love Elliot). For girl’s names, I liked Sophie, and he liked Samantha, but we couldn’t decide on one that we both loved. (Girls names are surprisingly tough!)
My friend Nora told us a funny way to analyze names: The Blind Date Test. Pretend someone is setting up your college-aged child on a blind date. They’d ask, “Hey, want to meet my friend Toby?” Now think: How would you picture that person, just based on the name? Would you want to meet them? It’s a surprisingly good way to get a feel for the name, don’t you think? :)
There are also such cool unusual names these days. Toby’s friends include Zelda, Quinn, Sailor, Elodie and Meriwether. (Aren’t those all amazing?) The Baby Name Voyager shows you how popular every name has been since the 1880s. (Warning: It’s totally addictive.)
So, I’d love to ask: What baby names do you like? Do you prefer offbeat names, or would you stay more traditional? Would you name your child after a relative? Do you like your own name? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
P.S. This baby name book looks great:
(Top photo by Raul Gutierrez)