The other day, my friends and I were texting about turn ons — like visible forearms, romance novels and sexy shows. We also encourage each other to ask for what we want — or try new things — because women deserve to feel good! But my #1 piece of advice? Use a vibrator.

Dame was founded by two women — a sexologist and an engineer — who wanted to revolutionize sex toys. Through smart design, tons of research and a thoughtful approach, Dame creates toys that are meant to close the pleasure gap, Plus, vibrators are just really fun! Dame’s products are beautiful and full of touches that help you feel relaxed and taken care of.

If you’re interested in trying a vibrator for the first time, I’d recommend the newest member of the Dame family: Dip. The vibrator, which can be used internally and externally, is whisper quiet and padded in an ultra-soft silicone. One button controls five intensity levels, so you won’t have to fumble around — you can just focus on staying present, exploring your body, and discovering what truly feels good.

Another favorite is the Eva, which you can use hands-free, solo or with a partner. And we swear by Dame’s silky-not-sticky lube.

And if you’re looking for something extra special, we love love love the Aer, which uses pulses of air and suction to mimic oral sex. (It has a cult following for a reason.)

Today, Dame is offering one lucky reader a $300 gift card and a Dip. To enter, please visit Dame and tell us in the comments what goodies you’d want to treat yourself with. The winner will be chosen at random tomorrow. Good luck! Update: The winner has been chosen and notified. Thanks for playing!

Bonus for all readers: Dame is offering 15% off any order with code CUPOFJO15. (This $30 cutie is incredible.)

(This post is sponsored by Dame, a women-owned company we love and trust. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Cup of Jo.)