What are you up to this weekend? I’ve felt like a mama bear watching Toby walk into kindergarten every morning. I hadn’t expected it to be so emotional! It’s such a big school. It gets easier right?! Anyway, this weekend, we’re heading to Connecticut for my cousin’s wedding, and we’re staying in a rambling rental house with our relatives. Hope you have a good one, and here are a few fun links from around the web…

A pick-me-up on rainy days.

The right way to microwave leftover pasta.

14 psychology tips that everyone should know. (“When laughter breaks out in a group of people, each one will instinctively glance at whichever other individual they feel closest to in that group. This is a good way of spotting who is secretly sleeping together at work.”)

How to do a ballet bun.

The myth of quality time. This essay made my heart swell.

Behind-the-scenes of designing a book cover.

Found! The best polish for toes: the most beautiful sheer (Allure).

Muffin tin tapas.

Are you guilty of writing this horrifying email?

Loving this ballerina’s Instagram account.

Did you ever see the great movie Something’s Gotta Give? These women had a bachelorette party with that as the theme — turtlenecks, glasses and roast chicken in the Hamptons. So funny.

And, most of all, a double rainbow on the eve of 9/11.

(Photo of Tilvie the bunny by Katia Carletti)